Hi Sadpand. That sounds a bit weak as a boundary with consequences to me. If I were your W, I would think - great if he focuses on his own life and job hunt - means I can just get on with my A in peace.

I think if you truly want to set a boundary on your W disrespecting your M and home, consequences need to be greater than this...

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus