"When you spend all Monday with OM, and don't come home until after midnight; and then on Tuesday night shut yourself off behind a curtain from the moment you get home until bedtime; and then spend all Wednesday with OM, and don't come home until after midnight; and then spend all Thursday with OM, and don't come home until after midnight; and then spend all Friday with OM, and don't come home until after midnight; and then spend all Saturday with OM, and don't come home until after midnight; and then spend all Sunday with OM, and don't come home until after midnight...

...I feel abandoned, cut off, and disrespected. It is your choice to spend your time that way, and I will not argue with that choice. However, if you continue to spend all your time like this, and shut yourself off while you're here, then I'm going to focus on my own life and on my job hunt."