What about this? And Starsky, if you feel what you suggest may be too much, what would you downgrade this to?


Dear H, I'm so sorry that you feel your life has run off course. I truly only wish happiness for us both. I understand that you want to simplify your life and don't want to work and live in different places.

What I need to say is that I still love you, and I don't want us to divorce. I hope that our marriage can still be saved.

But there are honestly some things that would need to happen for me to feel safe, comfortable and consider getting back together again. I'm not sure if you're even interested or not, but if you are, we can discuss it. I didn't want the moment to pass without telling you this.

Of course you are free to make your own choices. I respect your wishes, and if you decide to file for divorce, I won't stand in your way.

Toots.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus