Yes. That's what I'm seeing. I continue to be appalled that they are spending all day every day together, but when I reflect on it the only reasons I have to want to do something about it are anger and pride... that is, feelings. When I ask "what's best for *me*", the smart thing that I need to do is to get a job, and get a life, and detach detach detach. What they are doing is angering me, and it is embarrassing, cruel, and hurtful, but I can rise above it.
Even so, I still want to stop this stupid weekend camping trip idea. That's just too %*&% much.