Confused 2

[Joe46]

I also think the reason I got frustrated today on here is because everyone is telling that as I enforce my boundary that my wife may act out or "spew" and I should not take it personal. It is her being angry at my changes. I wasn't taking anything she said as personal until it was brought up that I am a emotionally abusive person. I did not respond to what she said, I did remember it and actually thought to myself that I need to think about what I have done that would make her feel this way.