Highway 20 Ride

[mleigh4]

My H said he had been unhappy for over 10 years, this was when we had only been married for 9. Definite script to justify their actions and feelings. I am finally getting that they really don't know what is making them unhappy, they really have no one else to blame. Which is why we have to get out of the way and let them figure it out. And IF they find their way back, The hard part is for us to figure out if we can live with the damage they have done.

I enjoy these moments of clarity.

Cali-you did good not taking the bait!