Pbetra,

MLC is a whole different ball of wax. I have said clearly in my posts that all is not equal in DBing when one takes the type of WAS into consideration.

To me, Sandi's thread is applicable for those who are just WAS...not MLCers. In short, my answer is "no" to your question.

There is a reason why there's a MLC forum devoted exclusively for spouses struggling with their MLCer (and same can be said for the Sex-Starved Marriage).