I agree with RD, I think you need to state it now, as to how I'm not sure. Hopefully some vets will chime in with advice.

That would create a possible future problem - or at least perception of one
Do you know what he means by that?

Me 28 / H 28
M 1 / T 2.5
BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more"
Still living together, separate rooms.