I need a plan if anyone could give me any advice please do. I am meeting my W in about an hour to setup, load, and teach her how to run the books for our 2 businesses. This is very emotional for me because I took a lot of pride in them. I know I have to keep my emotions in.

I did just call my W and told asked what exactly does she expect me to teach her tonight. I wanted to be able to prepare myself so I can keep a level head and show how stable I can be while teaching her.

This is a huge test I am sure from her to see if I can keep it together and be strong. It is also an opportunity for me to show how strong I can be and lead.

Lastly I have an appointment with my divorce attorney on Tuesday morning. It is not something I want to do and I tried to wait until the final hour, but I do have to look out for myself as well.


Me: 36
W: 36
D: 14
T: 18 (05/1997)
M: 16 (05/1999)
BD: 7/23/15
Separation 01/2015
D mentioned and started 02/2015
D filed 3/2015
OM confirmed 3/30/15