Thank you all for your straight talk. I need this. I just discover how fresh my wounds are. My whole beeing seems to be attached to my wife. So be patient with me.
I have read the book you have mentioned. I am trying to apply some of it in my life. But it will take time. I also read a book about boundaries and guess what? I don't have boundaries. So with 46 yrs I have to discover my own life? That hurts.
This process is painful and I hope it's worth the effort. I am glad that I have found this forum.


Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out