Newbie needs advice and encouragement

[raliced]

Hey Kramer- A few thoughts here:

You say..

I'm doing my best to GAL and remain fairly dark, but the depression is mounting

But your posts are peppered with texts and conversations you have with her.

1. Why does she keep trying to make me feel guilty about moving forward with my life, after she initiated these proceedings?
2. How can I have these conversations with her without coming across as a d1ck?
3. How can I maintain the high road without being drawn into petty side arguments about our relationship issues?

I don't think you're really dark, Kramer. Do you have a L? I know you said you haven't been served - but it sounds to me like all these conversations about legal issues and the SUV should be handled by lawyers.

That would be my response to your #2 and #3. Stop having the conversations. You don't have young children together so there shouldn't be much to talk about.

As to #1 - these types of things exist in all the situations with a WAS. It's justification to make them feel better about their actions.

Just my .02