Be prepared for the worst. Hope for the best but divorce usually brings our the worst in people. It's just a hard process. It's the end of dreams, families, aspirations, emotions, a lot of stuff gets stirred up.
I cant tell you how many times I have heard folks say "My wife/husband would never do that" and they do. All the time.
Did you expect your wife to have a PA? No, but she did.
