Cat, I wasn't worried about enforcing my boundary or even questioning enforcing my boundary until I read your post this morning. I have felt good about how I have handled things so far. It is big for me to do what I have done. I have not done anything to try to get her to stop doing anything. I am separating myself from this situation. If she wants to keep doing the job, than fine. But I do not want to be married to someone that does this kind of work and I am tired of being lied to over and over. If she wants to work on things than I am all for it. If not than I am moving on with my life. Thank you for your support.
Last edited by Joe406; 03/13/1506:35 PM.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"