Koalada, you mentioned 'nice guy syndrome'. You may have already done this, but there's a book out there about 'nice guys' (Google it, I can't mention it by name here). The damn thing could have been written about me. Reading it changed my life.

I did this badly much of the time, but Sandi and RAI are right about not being her 'friend' right now. The time for being friends is when she's come out of the A and is truly committed to working on your R.

I've been in my sitch since September 2014 and I feel like we are just now getting to the point where my W is getting serious about working on our M. Patience is your friend.

Last edited by Rzrback; 03/13/15 05:54 PM.
Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
Piecing

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