I am letting go. I would have texted to my wife back and forth last night trying get her to see my point and control the whole arguement. I did nothing. I have not been pushing son to figure out what he wants to do because I think he should. I have been patient and supportive. I am reading the five love languages. I am making lists of things in the past that I have tried to control and asked myself what I was trying to get from it and how my fears were fueling it.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"