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Susan

So how do the speakers get connected? If H feels love then how to output it, how to get that song played?

Hmm...this is the big question I need to figure out!

I like the idea of you having new tools in your tool kit. If you were trying to fix the connection with a screw, a hammer won't do. So you go get a screwdriver, sorry screw head wrong size, different size, sorry no need a posscrew driver (Philips head).

If all else fails try twisting with pliers! We do not say how inadequate we are because it's a hammer! We keep going with new tools, try new things, 180s, etc.

Incidentally as you know Al Turtle, you will understand the term pull in a conversation. Essentially watching Bestie at work pulling is inspirational, starts with space lots of it, (bestie's H is in serious crime so faces some awful stuff sometimes), then basic open question about his day. If hard day then coffee and more space. Water is hot, shower? Then she attends to his basic need for a drink, small hug, more space, then asks him to do a minor household task. Then would you like to tell me about today? Easy when she does it.

I arrive at home and I get a rant about the wrong bacon..........

Mind you in some areas you seem expert in the pull!

Steady only being cheeky.

V

Hahaha...naughty V! I love it!

Do you think my skills are transferable? Lol!

Thanks for sharing the description of your bestie. She does sound the expert! I have read one al turtle piece on pulling, think I need to re-read and look for more.

Sometimes my H can be very open, the other night he was but he'd had a few drinks... I need to have a think about whether I do anything differently at those times when he's more open, and experiment with that.