Cadet, I think you're right. His self-esteem seems at an all time low right now and he doesn't seem to love himself.
Something my friend said last night really hit me and made me feel a lot less anger, and more compassion-- "I want to punch him for what he's doing to you BUT I know him and I know he's a really good guy, and I feel really bad for him...think of how scary it must be to be so lost, to not know who you are or what you want, to not like yourself."
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
