I stole this from Sandi's thread I think it was posted by Patient Man. Vanilla's post above is right.
This is a great couple of sentences. I think it might help you today. It is helping me a lot right now.
"If you are in a situation where the game is rigged so that you cannot win, it ultimately doesn't matter. It only matters that you stay true to yourself, your morals, your boundaries, your version of YOU that you can live with."
Me 41 Wife 38 T20 M13 S8 D3 Bomb 1/26/15 A confirmed 2/19/15