On the night of my D's birthday, I discovered that my H was texting a female co-worker saying how he is living in hell because of me. I was very upset because this has always been an issue with him Talking to another female about our marital issues. I confronted him a few days later about it and he said that he had no one else to talk to too. I got mad and filed the D papers. Well, when I told him that I filed the papers he said that he wanted to work on the marriage. So I put the papers on hold. So, the last time that I saw and talked to him was over a week ago. For someone who wanted to work on his marriage is not doing a very good job by ignoring me. I told him that I had some requirements and I gave him a list. And they are as follows:
1. He had to get back on his medicine 2. He had to see a therapist 3. I wanted him to date me 4. And he had to be transparent.
My therapist help me come with this list. He agreed but I am now confused because I haven't heard from him.
I don't know what to do anymore. I am staying busying because it is tax season.
