Seperated -she is with someone, I'm desperate (3)

[vdubber]

Received a text late last night from W saying she's not dating anyone, she could if she wanted but doesnt. She wants me to find someone else as she is not interested in love anymore, she doesn't believe it exists, that it is simply a word that makes people expect to much from others. That its an excuse for selfishness. Without love their is no way to expect anything from anyone. It's much safer, and no need to worry about disappointing anyone. It's just simple. She doesn't want to be expected to behave a certain way. That she is just her and likes it that way.

This makes me feel she is very hurt over the past and doesn't want to love again...or probably just words that mean nothing...idk.

Is there any possible scenario that could make her willing to be open to us?...I feel very discouraged. I have been letting her toy with my emotions and actually believe she missed me and cared. I am just sad at this point. I know I need to regroup and refocus on me now, just hard to hear the things I have heard, get my hopes up, and then get smacked in the face with a reality stick.