Good job on catching your words to W b/c they were "judgmental". How are you working on yourself so those judgmental thoughts become less frequent? Patience.
Its actually been a bit since she has spewed ... and even longer since I have taken any of the bait. I have for the most part limited my judgmental thoughts concerning her, but yeah .. there are a few there still, trying to increase my faith and spiritual awareness has helped .... knowing I am not The One who will judge .. not my place .. I have to remind myself I gave it to Him ... not my monkeys ... not my circus ... rinse ... repeat.