Sandi, I am falling under the category "nice guy syndrome". I was never good in making my life a priority. I was an angry man but without "balls". I was harmless. Maybe being tougher would be a 180.
But can she distinguish between me being angry and me being though? I know I am asking a lot of strange questions, but at the moment I love to read the advice of experienced people because I don't trust my instincts.

Last edited by koalada; 03/13/15 03:18 PM.
Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out