RAI isn't this in conflict with the LRT? To be a man my wife enjoys spending time with?
I have read about the wayward wife and the approach seems to be tougher than the LRT. And I have no idea if she has still contact with the OM. I will think about your ideas for a few days. Right now I am not in a hurry.

I try to take care of myself. I live in the house of my PIL. They have moved in a flat that is designed for disabled people. My MIL will need visits from a care-service one day. So this is the next big thing for my W to think about. She is the only child who can look after them.

In the house I have everything I need. I have plenty of time, work hard in the garden, I am riding the bike everyday, I watch movies, read books and learn new songs on the guitar. I really miss the children. Most of the best contact happened during the everyday life. Talking while shopping, small talk at the meals and many hugs during the day.


Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out