Hope, I would advise to go with your gut. If you would prefer to drive separately then do. It's whatever you're comfortable with.
Originally Posted By: Toots
1) Your H says you walk around looking mad at the world and so he doesn't want to be intimate with you.
2) You sound mad that your H thinks you should ask for help, when you feel he should know you want help
From what you've read in the books, any ideas on what you might change to try and improve these areas?
Did you put any thought into these questions? I can relate to #2. I wanted H to help more after our son was born, but I never asked H for help. I just grumpily did it all expecting him to know what I needed from him. Looking back it's really no wonder he started avoiding being in our home. I was silently seething and he felt useless. Your H can't read your mind. You have to communicate your needs to him.
Can you give us an update on how things are going? The more information you provide, the better we'll be able to support you on this journey.
Me: 30 H: 35 M: 5 years S2 Signs of MLC started Feb 2014 BD - PA July 2014 Piecing/reconciling late July 2014
