Bottom line. Do what is in your best interests right now. You don't have a reliable or clear-thinking partner right now. You can't control what she is going to do. Stop worrying about whether something will make her angrier or not. Your M is in big trouble right now regardless. Start working on the things you can change - namely yourself. My W wants D and she wants it done in the cheapest most expedient fashion. And there is nothing I can do to stop her. The only thing I can do is work on being the best "me" that I can be and protect my interests. Whatever happens, I know that I took the high road. I am letting my W make her huge mistake and giving her that freedom. The hard part is accepting it. You can never make things worse by protecting yourself. Remember, SHE is responsible for her own actions. You cannot be.
