I agree with Starsky, that if you are fundamentally ok being at your core who you are, and if you are happy with you then it is adjustment or fine tuning that is needed to get the best from your R. Changing you to make your M work when Susan is Susan is likely to make Susan inauthentic to herself. It is possible that all that is needed is new technique rather than new belief ( if that makes sense). Tools that will help two ok individuals fit better, we allow people these choices in the work environment, and we apply and teach remedial soft and hard skills. Especially with individuals new to their posts but I for one expected to be absolute perfect 100% of the time, I would not ask that of myself at work so why in my R do I do this?
This journey can be about new tools in the tool box.
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Last edited by Vanilla; 03/13/1501:16 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
