It's a nightmare. Wake me up.

[koalada]

Thank you for putting things into perspective. She always loved romantic novels (the cheap ones with a passionate couple on the cover. At least that's how they look here in Germany.)
I have not met her romantic needs... At least not all the time.
Right now I am afraid that me drawing back the support will make here angry. And her being angry, could that help? She can be very stubborn and I guess she would contact a lawyer to find out about her rights. I have already done this. My colleague is responsible for dealing with fathers who are not willing to pay for the kids. She adviced me and gave me all the necessary informations. I don't want to open pandoras box and make things worse.