The jealousy just doesn't make sense to me. Its what she wanted us to do but I guess at her pace.
I absolutely did not tell her too many details of the plans beyond lunch with the woman and a beer with s mutual friend.
The intent was to avoid a lie/deception if anything she said on Wed was real and to not surprise her at the last minute. She accused me of enjoying that she's jealous. Which is so not the case.
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.