I googled some of the links for EA/PA. But if there's something better then please let me know.

The plan for today is I'm back to plan D. I see my therapist this afternoon.

Thinking about the discussion last night, she was planning on staying here to see a therapist and then go after the EA/PA. Definitely crazy thinking.

She's threatening to fight for our son just so she doesn't have to pay child support. Not that she really cares about his well being. If she's seriously come to terms that she has the problem with anger and self esteem, then I don't know how she could think I'd leave him with her without a fight.

She wants out with the least amount of baggage as possible (debt, etc.). She's been using the friend mantra for a while. She just it as easy as possible.

So I have a decision to make very soon.

Last edited by Sherman333; 03/13/15 08:51 AM.

Me: 45 W43
S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce)
D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.