I would take any thoughts of your W and helpfulness versus consequences out of the mix here. Do you like taking your kids to school, and would you like to continue doing this? I think that's the only factor here...
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus