Seperated -she is with someone, I'm desperate (3)

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Hi Sandi. I so look forward to getting your input and advice. It's not always what I hope to hear but know it's the truth about what is going on in my life.

Unfortunately I had already had communication with her earlier prior to getting your feedback. I had told her i would not have an interest in dating her if she was seeing someone else. She responded a bit later saying so if other men wanted to court her i wouldn't be interested. That I wanted her to be in a committed relationship with me and saying that isn't courting. That I don't see her as her own woman. That I am laying out the rules of courting her and that she can comply or forget it so she will forget it.

I responded saying yes I expect commitment t us and i am not willing to be with her if she seeks affection from others. That it simply won't happen.

So wtf...she thinks the man who has loved her for 28 years just wants to be in a boyfriend rotation? Who the heck has she become? It's clear that she misses me and wants me in her life but is not willing to give up OM or OM's??

I no longer respect her morals and values, she is not the woman I married. I hope she can snap out of her new life as she is losing the best man she has and will ever know.

I'm very depressed tonight...