Newbie needs advice and encouragement

[Kramer]

Guys, please. I could really use some help here. I have been trying to hold strong, and don's want to backslide when we talk later. It may seem by the tone of my posts that I want to move forward with divorce. I do NOT want that, but I can't change or control what she does. I can only control my actions.

I want to be firm and detached without coming across as mean and indifferent. Everything is stacked against me at the moment, but I still hold out the slimmest of hopes that our R can be resuscitated and reborn.

Until then, I have to move forward in my life and improve myself.