I took your advice. I went to W's house to get D14's clothes. I did not bring up anything from the last couple days and my snooping. I just went in all smiles and acted like everything was great. We talked for about 15 minutes about her day, I told her a few stories from my day. Then I played with our dog for a few minutes. Then D14 and I left. I have to admit that may have been my first time that I executed my plan through all of this. I also told her that on one of these nice days this weekend I am going to come by to either take our dog to the park or do something outside with him.
I actually feel really good right now about myself. I actually walked out of the house not feeling emotionally drained. I am going to stop looking into things for my own mental health.
Tomorrow is not going to be so easy so I have to prepare myself. She wants me to teach her how to start doing the financials for the business. Even though she is the Dentist and the face of the company, that business was my baby. The numbers I had as far as collections percentage and everything else blow even my accountants mind. But I am not going to fight her on it if she wants me to teach her I will just go along with it. I could not help her but if she fails, it will hurt my daughters future.
Lastly as we were driving home my daughter said that her Cheer Squad which is going all the way across the state(5 hours away) needs volunteers to drive the buses up. So I volunteered. I was going down already for it so now I can feel needed and help someone.
Last edited by errod; 03/12/1511:37 PM.
Me: 36 W: 36 D: 14 T: 18 (05/1997) M: 16 (05/1999) BD: 7/23/15 Separation 01/2015 D mentioned and started 02/2015 D filed 3/2015 OM confirmed 3/30/15
