It's like she wants me to do everything so she can not feel like the bad guy in all of this? This is BS. She refuses to take any responsibility for this situation, take any action, or make any plans.
You're just now getting it?
Be careful. I think you've handled yourself much better than the usual newcomer. However, you came close to backsliding last night. It's difficult b/c you still love her very much, but when you said she could live in an apartment for a while.....you meant you would help finance it, right? To me, that's the same as financing her love nest to conduct her A.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
