Barb, I do know you get it. And BTW, it's always bummed me out that your XH doesn't support your efforts on his own son's behalf. That's tragic. At least I don't have that. In fact, I vented on him before I posted. He got an emergency call, so it wasn't a full blown vent. I had to go somewhere.
Yes, I know this, too, shall pass. I really am thinking that it will die down considerably after our appointment with social security on April 10. Tomorrow will be part of that load I can dump. I didn't realize how stressful this was until I realized how overwhelmed I am by the smallest of things this week.
Tonight, I'm making pork chops and roasted broccoli and cauliflower for dinner. Then D18 and I will eat at the table and just have a peaceful meal. I'm having hardwood floors installed in my D21's current bedroom and in my upstairs hallway. So I might have to stand there and admire the progress today as well. Whatever it takes!
Thanks for the support. It means a whole lot.
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
And BTW, it's always bummed me out that your XH doesn't support your efforts on his own son's behalf. That's tragic. At least I don't have that. In fact, I vented on him before I posted. He got an emergency call, so it wasn't a full blown vent. I had to go somewhere. 
