I saw a cell phone number on the desk. So I did a reverse look up on it. It was a an older divorced man. He is 51 my W is only 36. Let me add him and his parents and sister all have gone to my W's office since the beginning. My wife also told me on Monday she signed up to do a race, when I looked at the roster he was also doing it. Then I looked up his name in the system at work and saw that he was in the office a few weeks ago but there was charge for the appointment.

So after collecting all of this information I confronted my W about it. She says there is nothing there. She did not charge him for his appointment because it was a very small filling touch up and the entire family goes there. She then said she does not talk to him but has always been friends with his sister. Which is true. She says the sister gave her his number if she had any questions about the process of a divorce since he divorced more recently then her. W swears she never called him even to ask questions.

I still think she seems guilty but if I continue pushing the issue we would be done for sure.

She once again said we will never get back together and I said here is your chance to come clean. If you are even emotionally with someone else tell me now and I will give up on our marriage.


Me: 36
W: 36
D: 14
T: 18 (05/1997)
M: 16 (05/1999)
BD: 7/23/15
Separation 01/2015
D mentioned and started 02/2015
D filed 3/2015
OM confirmed 3/30/15