Thank you for your advice. I will try to focus on the facts. Be patient.
I have read DR. I always thought that DB would be just an older version of DR.
Just reading your posts helps me to feel better about the situation. It is good to know that other people can relate to this.

Regarding the separation counseling. How should I talk to her about my decision? Should I offer her an explanation for it?

Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out