Wife having emotional affair 5

[PatientMan]

Well this just keeps getting odder and odder. I don't understand if this is a withdrawal thing or what. Now she texts me and says she was really looking forward to see me tonight is all. But will have to wait till tomorrow frown face. Then asks why I couldn't make it tonight.

I'm sorry, call me dumb. But I'm confused as he!!. Can some one explain.

Mr.Bond good luck figuring that out as well. He doesn't live in my state. It's almost like she has a plan or something when he comes back. And some how it involves my kids. But she has said in a very angry tone of voice she is done with him. It's crazy. I don't know if she wants to hurt this guy or not hurt his feelings. All I know is what she has said. And that is she is very done with this guy. I'm just trying to keep this drama at a low point right now. But weird how things change so fast. Crazy!

You're thinking too much.

Is it an inconvenience for you to change your plans? Do you WANT to change your plans? Or are you contemplating operating out of fear that if you DON'T change your plans to see her then that will be the deal-breaker on your relationship?

There's no need to answer that to me, but be honest with yourself. If you're in that last boat, you still have a lot of work to do and probably shouldn't worry about jumping through her hoops. The truth is, if she's serious about reconciling with you, it isn't contingent upon you changing your plans.

On the other hand, if you're in a really good spot, it's easy to change your plans, and you really feel like you want to, go for it.

In my very humble opinion, if a simple request such as this has your head spinning, even just a little, then you are NOT "in a good spot." Also, please remember that I'm just a stranger who knows only what you've told me and probably doesn't remember half of it. Ultimately, this question can only be answered by YOU.

-PM