Part of me still feels like he's only still around because he can't support himself without my income.
Mindreading ... beware of doing this ... you do not know what he is thinking or why he is staying
You may have built up some resentment of him being the breadwinner ... read the DB book, and this forum you will start to stumble on several trends ... one of which in this case is focus on you, you can only control YOU ... not your spouse.
