Well to be honest I have no idea what really is going on inside her. It is all guessing and interpretation of her words, how she behaves and so on. I am not a mindreader so most of it is my thoughts running around in circles, trying to bring some sense into this mess. Regarding the OM she told me that they have never met and would not be in contact. Again I can only make a guess. When we meet it is civil and friendly, although I am quiet angry sometimes. I follow the 37 rules and write the anger in my diary. It might sound weired but the situation helps me to learn new things about myself everyday. I will read your story. Do you have a link to it? So far many thanks for your reply. I am glad that I have found this forum.
Me 46 W 45 S16 D14 S10 M 20 yrs in June T22 12/14 sleeping in different rooms 01/07/15 she said she wants a separation 02/26/15 I moved out