I don't understand why you had to involve your W to take the picture down off the church website? A simple email to the church administrative assistant could've done the trick without involving your W.
To me, you're poking the bear. P
BUt that's just my take from it.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15