Congratulations on the car purchase and I'm sure you are loving the car. Your family is getting smaller by the month! LOL!

Shining, he couldn't tell you he had filed because he's a coward. Some of them won't tell you that they filed until you get the papers, i.e., like my xh did...but they didn't arrive in time for Christmas...thanks be to the man upstairs and ruin another holiday. Some will eventually tell you when they see you are happy or you've had a stroke of good luck. In your h's case, I think he probably decided to tell you because things had been going well the day before and he didn't want you to get any ideas that things had improved to the point of wanting to try to repair things.

So, my friend, keep looking forward because there is nothing you can do about the past. I have a good feeling that your future will be a very positive and enjoyable one once you get thru the next few months.

Hang in there!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.