I am working on this also. In the past it has always got to me. She knew how to get her way and I caved. Not anymore! Even if things go south worse, I am doing my thing. I also will not lie about her employment anymore. It is a HUGE step for me! Not only does this effect our relationship, but it effects us financially too. To me money is not everything. We are not poor. We get by and if we worked together we could be in great shape. If money is so important, than she can head out the door with her job and go live with the guy she is texting all the time. She better print out a picture of the girl she is pretending to be and tape it on when she meets him!!!


Me:44
EXW 44
Wonderful Children
M11, T14
BD 6/14
OM Confirmed
Divorce Final 2/25/16
"It works if you work it!"