More later, but I should have been more specific in that part. I meant that in the context of her being wayward and not necessarily in the event you reconcile. BUT, I love Heart's response.
If you're up to reading my (sometimes speculative and irrelevant) ramblings (lol), I will dig in to a couple other things you mentioned when I'm back on my computer.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014