You, my dear edz, are so inspiring to me. I am working very hard to be like that last paragraph you just wrote above. My XH has already moved on and to be honest, as much as I loved the man he was, he is not the same to me anymore and reconciliation is not even a blip on the radar. I just have to work on me and move forward and realize that XH is doing the same thing.

If a reconciliation WERE to ever happen, I would want to go into it a better version of me so that we would not end up back where we are now. I have really enjoyed seeing your evolution and it is great for me to see the perspective from the other side of the fence, so to speak.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids