Cadet, I seriously think you should add that thread to your standard threads in your welcome posts. It was incredibly insightful. I will have to come back to Sandi's post again and again. I wish I had that insight sooner.
Thanks again for all that you do, BTW
Koalada,
I am very sorry for your sitch. We are similar ages and we both have relatively young children involved. You have come to the right place. You will find support and advice here. Best of luck. I will try to follow your sitch, but if you check my thread out, you will find that I am pretty overwhelmed right now. Just know that you are in good company.