Thanks Zues...yes I will want to reiterate to her that I am only interested in spending time with her if she has dissolved the other relationship and wants to commit to our M. I don't want to scare her off as this is the most she's ever reached out but I also need to be firm that I an not willing to be in an open M. I do agree that we would need to start at a dating level if she's able to commit.

I don't want to miss out on an opportunity but need to make sure it's real and not just cake eating. She did message me good night, then something funny, then good morning. she's definitely on the offensive and has been in the pursuing role the past week. Of course it could all change in the blink of an eye as I don't know her frame of mind but know the WAW isn't to be trusted.

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M: 44 W: 45
Married 26
Together 28
D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7
S: 12/2013, seperate houses
OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him
OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time