Thank You Cadet! That is what I thought last night also. I did not force her to do these things. She decided for herself. She could have just worked on the marriage and not become WW and the stress would have been way less than all this has caused.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"