And you know what? I feel better for it! My M is over but I do believe DB has made me a better person and I am so thankful for it, and this site, and everyone on it. You guys rock!!
This is most important: DBing is not just for the period where we try to save our M or ourselves: it's learning a new way to be so that these things have less chances of happening to us. Every time I make a special effort to be different, to be better, I wonder if I could live like this for the rest of my life. Because DBing shouldn't be a trap for the WAS where we act right for a few months and, once their back, revert to our old ways.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
