Got it. But then what?

I have a list of things i wrote down on what I want in a spouse. I've asked her to do the same. Some of the items are a must and some i can negotiate on.

One that is a must is that she has to get the anger under control.

What other advise do you have for next steps?


Me: 45 W43
S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce)
D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.